Manhwa “How to Get My Husband on My Side” which is rencently published, is searched by many. It also can be referred as “남편을 내 편으로 만드는 방법” is published for free on Manhwa Isekai
The description of the comics “How to Get My Husband on My Side”:
She became a villainess who died by her husband’s hands in the novel. To be more precise, she became a supporting character who died while being used as a tool for political marriage by her father and brother. One day, my damn father crawled out and chose my fifth groom. The problem is that the chosen person was the best Paladin of the North and the very person who will kill me and my family in the future. First, I have to find a way to live. In the novel, before finding a way to save my sister-in-law that was going to die by my hands, there are many challenges I need to overcome. Such as melting my husband’s cold exterior, gaining the Northerner’s favor, and overcoming the Duke’s contempt. If I can overcome these challenges, wouldn’t my life be saved later? “I fell in love with you!” So please spare me!


Boo Ang
I wonder if the artist/creator is working at the same company of ‘Secret Lady’s and ‘A Mother’s Marchen’ because of the lighting effects.
hitsmeyo
this snake
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Boo Ang
MC stop being idiotically nice to that girl. You are now the REAL madame there so give this woman the wakeup call she needs.
Boo Ang
I actually don’t blame the villainess tbh. She is rotten and she’s doing her job. The MC knew that she is living at the mercy of others but won’t plan for her own and all she have is her “innocence”. Can she slap her own face so that she can have a counter attack for the villainess? Like, she slap me fist and it’s my reflex in retaliation, I pored her tea. Or she said she annd my husband loves each other, annd so I couldn’t stop myself from getting angry and splashed her tea. But no, she remained silent and only only say one phrase which she knew they won’t believe because first, they are NOT THAT CLOSE, those people doesn’t know her well, she came from the enemies’ side. So what makes her think that they would take her side? ?
Here we go again to, “I’m pitiful, no one is on my side.”
disqus_gfE0uYoEpy
MC gets her character development I promise :”’))
Boo Ang
I’ve read the novel and I can’t see the change even after the brother visits the north. ? She is still keeping her maltreatment from her husband which is absurd since they will reconcile after this green glass incident. ??
She’s acting all helpless when her brother is here. Doesn’t she knew that this is her place now and not the south where she came from? Here she have her husband.
Idk… The pity party of the FL is too much that author thinks the pity party is the only reason viewers read this. ?
aubretyyy
i know that she seems to be all helpless and being such a burden but given the fact that she was mentally and physically abused for as long as she can remember. the trauma that built up, took over her and reprogrammed her thought to such extent to react like that, just imagine being wronged your whole life, everything you say can cause the death of yours, she has to be mentally cautious all the time and you can also see that she seems to be very sweet and wholehearted so it is understandable that she would defend herself first rather than fight back because of all the thought that they wouldn’t believe her and her desire to justify herself.
It’s hard to swallow such act coming from a mentally ill person but it is like that. Once the trigger is pull, their body react out of instinct rather than rational thought.
Boo Ang
Aww shoot. I forgot her origin, I thought she was originally from the story, I forgot she was also abused and reincarnatee. ?
But what I’m also frustrated about this manhua is the prolong timidity of the FL as if she doesn’t want to change her personality and continue being the “Abused One” and doing pity party from Tim to time.
She’s too… How to word it…. I don’t know how to put her personality in words but I don’t like her. I really don’t. That why I’m frustrated about the story. I pity her ofcoz but she’s not doing anything to help herself, just pure pity party and she keeps staying silent about her suffering even after her and ML are on good terms in the novel.
Prolonged Pity party is not my kind of thing.
The story “How to protect the lovable you” and “Under The Oak Tree” ARE WAY BETTTTTTTTTEEEERRRRRRRR than this story.
At least, the FLs there knows how to improve themselves (alas improve personality). But not in this story, FL only smile and hides her suffering like what she does in her previous life but not changing her personality. Her weak permanently feeds the bully to bully her. ?
What I mean about her pity party is “yes I’m weak, let me smile and pretend that everything is ok. Oh I’m so pitiful I can only curl on one side. And the readers will like me more. Because they wanna protect me.” ? Nope, I want her to learn to learn to stand for herself bravely even once. I haven’t read any of the in the novel and I’m too frustrated to even wait and read till the end. I’m out.
Taehyunsrobloxgf
You’re only trying to view this from your own point of view and you clearly don’t know how trauma or PTSD works ruby clearly has severe PTSD from what her brorher did to her it’s only natural she would feel helpless infront of him . The way you’re talking as if it’s so easy to stand up to someone who abused her for years is really pissing me off. I’ve been in the same situation with my mom and everytime I think I’m gonna stand up to her I just freeze when she yells at me, u really dont get how terrifying post traumatic symptoms are. Even if shes safe in the north there must be a worry that it’ll all crash down and she’ll have to go back to living work her abuser.
Boo Ang
3 ⭐ for me.
It was all good at the beginning but after they reconcile, the FL’s personality becomes annoying. She is enjoying the pity party and doest do anything to help herself. No plans, no side thinking to help her situation. She relay on the ML and that’s it. She was a different soul right? She knew that story. But she won’t do anything to help her future. She will be helpless, accepting every bad thing thrown to her way.
She running away and this green glass incident is already a red flag for me. This series only has good art but if this story was given a mediocre art, you won’t give this a high rating. ?
I have read thee novel and I really really can’t help get annoyed with the female lead. Also the male lead, whenever the FL is in trouble (yeah because she doesn’t do anything but wait for her misery), he was not around. ?
Omega Dragon
Right? The only thing mc knows how to do is to depend on someone, to live for someone..
Yes sure, she cant go back to that abusive bother of her but she can go somewhere else since her husband’s people didn’t like her..
She can go to the dragon, to the place where no human will judge her.. find her own people..
But nahh, since the story is about romance, her poor self needs to be save instead of saving herself..
She’s lucky she’s a disney princess so at least she’s a bit unique or else she’s boring af..
Also, why did she put too much trust in her husband?
If we want to be realistic, i wont trust his ass, not after what he did to me on our first meet
Ok, one might say that she’d been abused for too long so she is now traumatized, yeah sure… Lets go with it…
In the end, she is just a damsel in distressed that needs her knight in shining armor…
Wh0retensia
Ya’ll really missed with this one
Omega Dragon
I saw spoiler,she just a traumatized demsel in distressed
Wh0retensia
did you read the novel?
shinwonderella
Besides Freya, Ellen disappointed me once again. GIRL YOU HAVE NO REDEMPTION ON ME. AND IVAN TOO ??? now i only trust Izek and Ruby’s forest friends ???
Kazuto Kirigaya
Ooooh some bishes bout to die in the next few chapters.
Wan-o Yanlem
Fk cliffhangerrr
Wan-o Yanlem
Ayooooo that bishhhhhh
lilly11223
nice slap
bigteddybear
10/10